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Dear dear cannot discharge... have to stay one more night.

Posted on 2006-11-12 13:46:52 by kyohei

ah yo.. today i tot dear dear can discharge liao but when i was abt to reach, she called and say that becos her urine got blood so the doc say that she need to stay one more night. I was like "ah yo, why?"

So today i accompany her from morning to night. In the afternoon, some of her frds and my frds came to visit but she's unwell and was sleeping. feel bad that they came but she's sleeping.

Just now when i was wheelchairing dear dear down to food court to accompany me eat. Suddenly she find the foodcourt smell make her want to puke then her temper and her tone turned bad. She say that "i dun wan to go close, go other places" Maybe i didn't sleep well for the past few days, i got a bit triggered but i cool myself down and told her that why not we go back to the ward to rest. I think the disease really make her mood swing and i'm wearing out. Think that i didn't had enuff sleep and rest for the past few nights.

That's why i left early and let her parents take over. So tonight going to sleep early as tml morningÂ i'll be going to see the doc and ask him some questions.

Hope that dear dear will be fine tml!!!!!

Comment:

princess said the following on 12-11-06 13:53

so fast wear out already...zzz... haiz... then wad u think. be gd husband so easy? now it\'s only e start. u still must tahan her for the rest of ur life.

when people in pain, they sure have mood swing 1z wad. v frustrating u koe.. plus e fear inside u dat something will happen, makes it more frustrating.

why u leave early? u so bad. she in pain also cannot sleep well. so u as her husband must suffer wif her wad. so u tired, u juz leave. then she in pain how? she can choose not to be in pain?

haiz...

sirenZ said the following on 12-11-06 14:26

Sometimes, being the caregiver of someone with illness can be indeed an emotional rollercoaster.Â

Hang in there.Â As the saying goes, "Tough situations don\'t last, tough men do."

Take care

princess said the following on 12-11-06 15:41

force u to go then u must leave? cannot stay?

take rest to walk a longer journey? but she dont get to rest from her illness leh... not fair. make sure she feels better? how can she ever feel better? even if she say better, it\'s juz to make u leave. gals all lidat 1z. anyhow say better not to make people worry.

adrian4736 said the following on 12-11-06 16:27

good tat u left early... well, wat will happen if u fall sick too? den who will take care of her? Gotta take care of urself 1st... so get plenty of rest and sleep!

Take care!

priscillachua88 said the following on 12-11-06 16:29

rest assure that your dear is in good hands ba...there are nice nurses afterall =) weeee

lifeworld said the following on 13-11-06 04:37

You must be under a lot of pressure now... Jia you, ignore all negative thoughts and be strong for your dear!

Athena said the following on 13-11-06 04:50

dont worry, just rest if u need to. It\'s a long run, sometimes need to take a break. Rest, sleep before u continue running the marathon.

when sick we tends to get frustrated easily. sometimes it\'s good that she vents abit athough not easy for u.

do continue to update us :)

platypus said the following on 14-11-06 11:52

u r sure being very understanding husband....hope things will turn out wellÂ 4Â the both of uÂ eventually.