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Finally feeling relaxed and answered
Posted on 2006-10-30 15:37:13 by kyohei
I thanks those who had left comments on my previous blog abt my prob faced for my wedding.
I took some of yr advices and my best frd whom had just got married and she's a christian. She gave me really good advices.
Quoted from my best frd - for the issue on auspicious dates..etc, well, honestly, a date is just a date. that battle not too worth fighting. bear in mind that the marriage is more impt than the wedding itself. so whichever dates that u celebrate your wedding annniversary, it'll still be memorable, because its a day two of you share and well, if it has to be on a different day from your ROM day, take it as two days of celebration in a year? The next thing you can do then is to give the dates to them and ask them, choose from the list. no other choices. Because these are dates with memories to both of you. And you would like to have it on those dates. The trick is, as long as it is not inauspicious, its ok. Rather than go along the auspicious track. It'll become more of the struggle.This would start you on the track where you do not really go along their "supertitious" beliefs and make it clear upfront that yours is a Christian based type of wedding, and your family prefers it that way. You wouldn't offend them either on the supertitious ground nor get into struggles with them subsequently because you are using the "good for your daughter cos auspicious dates" argument.
Actually quite true huh..I'm a catholic, i should have my say and my stand. As long as that day is inauspicious, it's ok. The most impt is we're happy with it.
I think let's make it like that.as propose by my best frd.
Comment:
Athena said the following on 30-10-06 16:08
oops i am abit late
any date is fine.. i think fri sat or sun is more convenient.
good that u solved to prob
Seven said the following on 30-10-06 16:14
jereminwong said the following on 31-10-06 14:59
yr friend\'s advice is very good.
for yr schedule, as long as u have enough time in between. allow more extra time. then u will not be rushing.
Seven said the following on 01-11-06 00:55
*wave wave* saw u blinking.. gd morning
Seven said the following on 01-11-06 01:23
janx said the following on 01-11-06 02:14
reply:
thx for ur opinion.. but i guess i forgot to mention tt i m one tt hv to study alone, otherwise i will be daydreamin or felt sad for no reasons. perhaps i dun hv such frenx or someone older tt can reali motivates me. de moment i saw them done soooo much(more than me), i begin to get scared then cant do a ting. so to avoid tis, i hv to study alone.
as for y mux i burn oil, becox i m a night learner ba. i reali need to be alone n de environment to be super quiet. tis will onli happen to my hse when everyone slpt! yupx, read my previous blog n u shall noe how noisy they can be. go somewhere else to study, not veri gd but at least better than my noisy hse lo. i did wen out to study, however onli studied two chapts. veri little but better than nth ma.
i duno y i behave tis way, guess its de environment tt i hv been livin in.. too competitive already. now tt parents asked me not to stress for studies n dun force myself, i already cldnt listen. its reali hard to change when i already got used to 16yrs of such life. well, when de results r out, i shall see... haix. aniway, do tk care. tatax~
killer_guitarist said the following on 01-11-06 02:35
reply: ha, bro I remembered to have noticed our age in eGen in 2005 or something but forgot about it later until you reminded me nowÂ
did you signed up after watching the evening news in march 2004 as well? just curious.
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your entry: ha..really ah sometimes if only the parents can be pleased more easily.. a wedding could have been much less a headache and even more wonderful. do you feel the same way?
fose90 said the following on 01-11-06 05:20
reply: thanx 4 ur comment.. just when ppl gif a weird look, is scary.. hahax.. somemore many eyes on us.. hahax.. onli my parent accept but my grandparent still couldn\'t accept.. as both of us are together going to 1 yr, my grandparent still couldn\'t accept..  just hope everything goes smoothly.. =)
that\'s good that you already plan everything well.. =) wish u n ur dear everything goes smoothly on that day and have a memorable/ happy memories... =)
*sorry, my eng is nt tat gd*
janx said the following on 01-11-06 07:53
reply:
hmx.. u r right, i m a pessimistive gal obviously. while i read ur comment, i got reali stressed up! its not becox i nv set goals or wat, i did n its de reason y i got soooo stressed up everyday. de stress given by my goals r far more than anione had gave me. but de goals r reali not tt hard to achieve, yet it stress me. haix.. i duno wats wrong with me. sometimes i can while sometimes i cant. determination.... one big prob too. last yr i had lots of it yet tis yr i cant find ani~
i m not givin up, tryin real hard but i still find myself wastin lots of time. now, half a day gone n i onli studied half a chapt. de same ting always happen, makin me lose confident. i duno how, time isnt waitin for me or anione... \'\' duno how \'\' may be jux an excuse. mum always say tt everyone shd learn, no such ting as duno how. haix... crackin my brain n forcin myself but in de end, i still wasted lots of time. argh... reali angry with myself!
janx said the following on 02-11-06 02:17
reply:
hax.. i duno yet. so far, not veri gd but better than few days n weeks ago. hope tt i continue studyin.. reali hope so. thx for ur concern! tk care. tatax~