Kyohei's Life-stories

Counting down to bid goodbye to singlehood :P

Posted on 2006-10-18 01:18:54 by kyohei

woah... two more days and i will bid goodbye to singlehood. Proceeding to another stage of my life -Â Marriage life. A lot of my frds are sharing the joy with me especially those that are invited for my ROM ceremony. They ask me am i excited and nervous? I say that i've both... very mixed up feeling. I bet dear dear feel the same also.

Yesterday me and dear dear went to collect th e marriage cert. This is a part that we have to do declaration about the particulars that is on the cert. This scene is so "funny" but very touching cos it's a time when both of us declared our love for each other.

After declaring, we went out to the bench which says ROM WEDDING. We sat there and took pic as this fri we are holding our solemnisation outside ROM centre. It's so sweet when we look back the photo. Although we're in our casual attire, the photo is ever loving.

Past few days, dear dear did some tests on me. Asking me what happen on this BUS? what special day is that? woah...it's cracking my brain. I can tell you that GUYS are definately bad at remembering small details. Dear dear say that if i cannot remember the full details, she will pinch me for one wrong answer. I manage to get the question answered half-correct. Luckily dear dear spare me, or else i'll be pinch to death..

These days i've been looking back our photos, neoprints and presents tat dear dear gave me. I can feel my heart being comforted. The feeling is great. Now really looking forward for our marriage life. Recently a lot of frds say that both of us grown in our relationship especially dear dear. Say that she has grown prettier and more womanly liao. I also realise that. But i feel that i've been fatter liao.. although recently i've been on controlled diet but exterior wise still can see. Should start training when the weather turns better.

Recently EGEN had a lot of happening, a lot of conflicts, disputes and internal flaming. Everyone plays a part in this community. Unconsciously, we had become a part of this community. Anything that happen in here do affect us in a way or another. There are pple who stand out for others, there are pple who trying to make peace, there are pple who trying to enforce their values. Can't egen be a place where there's no hatred? Can it be a place where everyone love to come in? It's a place for pple to vent their frustration or sorrows here. Does freedom of speech exist in EGEN? IT DOES but it need everyone here to make it happen.

I love coming in EGEN cos i get to see lots of different pple in here. Reading their life story makes me ponder abt mine and building a better life each day. I get LOVE in here from advices and comments and motivations.

!heart LET JOIN HAND IN HAND TO MAKE EGEN A BETTER PLACE FOR ALL OF US!!!!!!heart

Comment:

Athena said the following on 18-10-06 02:23

Dearest Kyohei,

May your life together be blessed , May God BlessÂ u bothÂ abundantly.!heart

jereminwong said the following on 18-10-06 02:39

congrat!!!

Seven said the following on 18-10-06 02:51

First of all, Congrats and blessed marriage so happy you and ytf has moved yet another happy and new phase of life. May the Lord bless both of you greater years ahead filled with laughters and sweetness.

Agree with you to make eGen a better place

!heart Join hands with you!heart

janx said the following on 18-10-06 04:29

wow! so sweet n lovin~Â so hapi for u.. congrats!! may God bless ur marriage!

i do agree with wat u say abt eGen.. reali need everyone\'s effort toÂ make eGen a better place for all of us. thx for ur encouragin comments too~

reply:
dun envy me, u r gettin married lehx! iÂ will envy u firx..Â hahax.. once again, congrats! Â hope u r still free to come to eGen to read everyone\'s blog after ur marriage. but of cox, family come firx~Â tts for sure ba. hax.. do tk care. tatax~~

princess said the following on 18-10-06 04:30

he said that he knows why i read egen though it wastes my precious time (to me, time is gold. i dont anyhow waste time 1z. so to answer the part where u say i waste time giving long replies etc..). the people here come from all walks of life, are unique in their own ways, and always make me laugh because it\'s not wad the people in my circle will ever do. How can there be no hatred? That is unless everyone is sensitive to each other\'s feelings, and understand instead of criticising. For me, i am who others treat me. Think of me as a chameleon.

guys r forever unaware of the things ard them. so stupid. haiz.

i dont take neoprint. waste $. i\'d rather take real photo. nicer plus bigger and more lasting.

being singleÂ is great. iÂ do miss being single, so i\'d rather be attached yet single. not as if i dont have the next half of my life toÂ beÂ attached... must always enjoy singlehood. only comes onceÂ inÂ your lifetime. when u r married, then no more chance liao. dont understand why youths these days want to get attached so soon. i know it feels good to be loved, but then again, u have ur entire life to love and be loved. so u must treasureÂ the things that have a time limit to it first.Â

princess said the following on 18-10-06 05:26

i did not write wrong comment.

I am not confuse. I see the merits of both sides, and i will take the chance to sit on the fence since i am still young. It\'s juz like ur childhood. It only comes once. Once u r so old, u can no longer ride on those electronic motor vehicles, neither can u play in those playgrounds anymore because everything\'s too small. Likewise, i doÂ congratulate uÂ on getting married, but i also dont envy because i feel that i am more fortunate because i have something u dont - u can never choose to be single again. You no longer have the rights and freedom of a single. Geting married is an irreversible change, if u get what i mean.

Huh? What abt ROM? Just go book and register la. Booking of church and Rom is easy what. Only wedding dinner need 1year to book. You dont expect me to book for all these stuff yet right? they dont even allow..zz.Â I can only book my gown and plan everything.

platypus said the following on 18-10-06 09:22

congratulations Kyohei

princess said the following on 18-10-06 14:48

was wondering.. i know uÂ n ur wife so loving but yÂ u dont blog out every detail of ur life?

from what i can understand from ur comments, to u, being a loving couple means blogging down ur affection on the blog, and telling e world e private stuff u both do. so why dont uÂ blog them downÂ too?

dont be offended hor.. juz wonder.

princess said the following on 18-10-06 15:52

why speechless? say la...

Seven said the following on 19-10-06 01:42

::reply:: a dollar? I think I mis-count

Hey really thanks for your million worth of comments (I hope I\'m right this time) Recently I\'m kinda of \'threw\' questions to God or rather had discussion with God, those bible stories flood my mind in related with the questions I posts to Him. I bet I will find strength those meaningful discussion.

Think again, if He care enough to take care of the birds in the air, fishes in the ocean, what\'s more I\'m His creation, do u agree? Look fwd to read your blog as you mentioned in my blog.