What's Love?

Recently i've been hearing some of my frds being stuck in relationship or loving someone but cannot get along with.

What's love when both cannot get along in harmony and always quarrel?? do you called it LOVE when you say that you loved her but you cannot take her temper, her nonsense, her attitude and her character.

Staying in the relationship becos the other party family treat you eat sharkfins, abalone, HK trip and many more WHEN you dun love her anymore. Staying on becos you feel that you owe them a lot. So keeping the r/s with their daughter means repaying them?

What's love in marriage when husband and wife dun face and talk to each other after work? Even when they went out for dinner or lunch. There are hardly any conversation. In one house, both of them have separate bedroom and bath rooms. So where are all the vows you made before GOD? Recently i heard a quote from PM LEE. Something like " We should be less happy so that we can strived" This statement make me feel that he's so irresponsible in his words. Singaporean are already striving and less happy already. Yet he's educating us to be like that. So where's the HAPPINESS in life?

I feel that pple in singapore are less lovingly. Becos of ambition, we loses our humanity. We complain this and that. It became a habit of most of us. It's like smokers, when they are bored. Cigarette will be out from their pocket and into the mouth. IT's the same with complaining. When does complaining comes? It's comes when someone who's selfish and care about THEMSELVES ONLY.

Example : Today i was taking this bus to work. There was this lady who got up the bus. it was crowded but there's enuff spaces for her but she insist to squeeze her way to the back becos she saw a empty seat right to the back. Back then she was mumbling.. "ah yo behind got space why pple dun move in lor. " In my heart i was thinking, the bus is not packed and you have a place to stand, what's there to complain? When she squeeze in, she was so agressive that she bump her way in. There was this lady who's her frd did the same thing. In my mind, why must they cause so many discomfort to other pple for their own liking? The best part is that she stop at the next two bus-stops.

My Thoughts of LOVE

To me, LOVE is the most wonderful thing in the world. To love someone is to accept and compromise. Love will washed all the ugly side of the other party. With love, you will forgive and forget. With love, nothing can put you to the test. Loving someone makes the other party felt LOVED and happy. To be with someone you love, you have to be sure that you and her can click and work things out before putting most of yr love to her.Cos Love doesn't come alone, it's a package of LOVE, HATE, JEALOUSY, ENVY and PRIDE.

Finding the one that you love and being together is not easy. Most of the time FATE will bring you together when the time is ripe. If you feel uncomfortable or terrible with someone that you claim that you love her. Then pls do some reflection on it.

My advice is LET NATURE TAKES ITS COURSE BUT YOU NEED TO CREATE CHANCES. Most pple out there only carry out the first part but forgot the 2nd part. How do you expect HIM to help when you don't create chances for him to fufill yr dreams and wishes.